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Originally Posted by ksjazzguitar
take care
Kerim
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02-05-2011 04:22 PM
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Originally Posted by musicjohnny
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Read Kenny Werner's Effortless Mastery.
This is a long term "problem" that involves ones feelings about him/herself, preparedness, confidence, personality type, perceived threat, ability to stay centered, ability to practice relaxation, ability to remain inner-directed under fire. People deal in different ways with this, but I know many friends, and myself, have benefitted from Kenny's book as a starting point.
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Very good topic...I was reminded that I have not read "The Inner Game of Music" so I just went to ebay and bought it.
I also found "The Art of Practicing" to be helpful, as someone mentioned above. Great post! thanks!
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I just come back from club and for me it was good because i enjoyed it, played mr. pc and billys bounce my legs got little bit shakey in begining but after it was ok, i dont know how but i didnt have that paralizing fear like before, atmosphere was diferent somehow i get over it as soon as first drum beat was played.This one i owe to you guys, you helped me. Got invited to play next monday
All the best
Kerim
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I just come back from club and for me it was good because i enjoyed it, played mr. pc and billys bounce my legs got little bit shakey in begining but after it was ok, i dont know how but i didnt have that paralizing fear like before, atmosphere was diferent somehow i get over it as soon as first drum beat was played.This one i owe to you guys, you helped me. Got invited to play next monday
All the best
Kerim
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outstanding thread
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Originally Posted by abdke99
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Great! Really happy to hear that Kerim. All the best 0zoro
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That great to hear, I love the adrenaline rush after a good gig.
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Congrats, Kerim! Cool that you've been asked back, too.
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That is so awesome. I'm going to go to bed with a smile on my face just hearing about it. I'm so happy for you.
Peace,
Kevin
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Congratulations!!!
Now-watch out for that adrenaline in the future gigs. After the rush comes the down-realize it's just the adrenaline. After most gigs these days I just go and get a cigarette on my own somewhere quiet, just to let it flush from my system.
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Glad it worked out! All you needed was that confidence. "Mr. PC" and "Billie's Bounce" are great choices; two of my favorites to play on a job. In most of the places I play they think "Mr. PC" is the name of the local computer repair company.
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Originally Posted by paynow
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thanks everybody for support really means a lot to me
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I have a follow-up for this post. Having now read both of the Inner Game of Music books, I can say without reservation that I do not recommend them for dealing with performance anxiety issues. They struck me as fadish pop psychology books with their own language and a system for basically ignoring important parts of onesself. In a nut shell, I found Kenny Werner's Effortless Mastery book to be much more in line with depth psychologists who aim to integrate all aspects of onesself, "warts and all". That level of integration and honesty - I think - is more in keeping with the making of real music. I think Bruser's "The Art of Practicing" is a helpful book too, very honest. The Inner Game books just felt too much like a corporate seminar to me, and also very dated, like 70s and 80s pop pyschology.
I put both Inner game books in the recycling bin...I did not want to pass them on.
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I have a follow-up for this post. Having now read both of the Inner Game of Music books, I can say without reservation that I do not recommend them for dealing with performance anxiety issues. They struck me as fadish pop psychology books with their own language and a system for basically ignoring important parts of onesself. In a nut shell, I found Kenny Werner's Effortless Mastery book to be much more in line with depth psychologists who aim to integrate all aspects of onesself, "warts and all". That level of integration and honesty - I think - is more in keeping with the making of real music. I think Bruser's "The Art of Practicing" is a helpful book too, very honest. The Inner Game books just felt too much like a corporate seminar to me, and also very dated, like 70s and 80s pop pyschology.
I put both Inner game books in the recycling bin...I did not want to pass them on.
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Do what you need to do to get up there but don't look the people in the eye. Eye contact makes it all so personal between you and the audience. Act like you are looking at them but don't. Look above there heads and smile.
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I figure the audience should be the one that is afraid of me....
Jack Wilkins passed a year ago today.....
Today, 09:40 PM in The Players