Quote Originally Posted by rpjazzguitar

One of the questions raised by the OP is whether the drummer knows where he is in the song. Some don't, but a good drummer always knows and is generous with the knowledge.

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+1 on RP's post - I'm guessing the drummer is in the same boat as you but doesn't want to admit it.

Not that I'm a stranger to this either, lots of good advice here, thanks.